My
personal experiences with money and class in our society closely matches what
was discussed in the article Shadowy
Lines That Still Divide. The article states “class is still a powerful
force in American life.” With this I completely agree, and I believe that class
in America will be a force that never declines in importance, or even gains
importance with the future generations.
A
passage from the given text that stood out to me since I have witnessed the
exact scene playing out many times was “The scramble to scoop up a house in the
best school district, channel a child into the right preschool program or land
the best medical specialist are all part of a quiet contest among social groups
that the affluent and educated are winning in a rout.” My family and I are
members of Nakoma Country Club in Madison, and every summer without fail I
overhear mothers at the pool, down by the tennis courts, and in the clubhouse
dressing rooms discussing the best preschools and grammar schools that they may
place their children in during the coming school year. Most learning
institutions discussed by these parents at the club are private schools with
hefty price tags—which would be out of reach for anyone under that upper-middle
class to which most families that are members of my club associate with.
Another
observation that goes hand in hand with the prior, was the connection I noted
with my life to the passage in the article that reads: “But merit, it turns
out, is at least partly class-based. Parents with money, education and
connections cultivate in their children the habits that the meritocracy
rewards. When their children succeed, their success is seen as earned.” A
specific way that excerpt connects to my life is through soccer. I play for the
top team in the Madison area, the Madison 56ers, and have for some time now.
Our club has coaches that have experience coaching at the NCAA Division 1
level, and employs some of the best trainers as well. As a club, and
specifically my team, we are very successful. This article started to make me
question how much of that success was due to the class our families belong to.
My team’s roster has 21 girls on it, and I’d safely say that only one of my
team mates family would be considered out of the high middle class, and even
her family is still middle class. Sure, as players we are all dedicated and put
in a lot of time and hard work to our soccer, but we are also provided with
some of the best coaches, and resources that a club can provide—and at a high cost
which may very well be out of reach of many families. I’d have to say that a
large portion of the reason I personally have had so much success in my sport
is due to the fact that my family had the resources that others did not, and I
was able to play for a club like the 56ers.
ReplyDeleteHi Zoe!
Awesome connections! I also made some of the same observations as you did. I had never considered looking at what sports I play as a part of how I can conclude what class my family belongs to. When you discussed your first quote about how new parents are trying to "scoop" up the best house in a school district or enroll their kid into the best preschool, it made me realize how frantic some people can get to create the illusion of being in a higher class than they really are. I hope that makes sense, but it just surprised me how many people take it so personally.
Zoe, I agree with your first statement to your first quote. Class is still very powerful in America. Your second paragraph is truthful as well. American people seem to always be striving for the best. Everyone always wants the best for themselves and their family. This may not be a bad thing, but it can get in the way of how people should be living their lives--focusing less on the matrialistic part and more on the important things.
ReplyDeleteZoe~
ReplyDeleteAwesome comparisons!
I also chose the first quote you talked about, and even in the pool locker rooms here in McFarland, I hear mothers discussing information about what is the best of the best for their child...without considering the price tag, which I think is crazy. A solid public school, like McFarland's district, could be better than a small, isolated private school. I think some parents freak out too much about it!
I also think you hit some awesome points with your soccer team! It was very interesting to think about, but do you think your team would be affected if you all were from the lower/working class? Or does one's skills come from pure talent? I think it is a little of both. Some rich girl could have the best resources out there, but be somewhat uncoordinated and play just okay, but the girl born with pure talent, who has just enough money for a pair of cleats, practicing in her garage might really be the better one, right?
~Eva